My two miscarriages were the first experiences I had with pregnancy. Each loss left me feeling empty inside, and it was difficult to find reasons to move forward. At that time, it seemed as though things would have been easier and the pain would have been less if I had been blessed with a child before my losses. Through my journey, I have connected with many families who have dealt with loss after having healthy children. These families have their own painful experiences and show us that all losses, even after the blessing of a healthy child, are relevant, painful and absolutely life changing. All losses are heartbreaking.